Strength in the Lord.

Many times we go through mountains of troubles. It seems like after one thing have been solve there's even bigger problem to come. I've especially been going through some series of obstacles. Car break down, one after the other. Financial problems that leaves us just two digits in the bank with 4 little children to feed. Bills to pay that increase so much. Well I really wasn't worry at all because I know that my God is my Jehovah Jireh-My Provider. He provides for me in all of our needs and he will help through all our troubles. I remember that God will never give us obstacles that we cannot handle. So instead of looking at my troubles, I look at the Lord God Almighty and his strength inside of me and rejoice with my problems and praise for his blessing upon my family and I. You see with us it may seem impossible but with God everything is possible. We got part of our cars fix and we never missed a bill even though at times we do have only $16 in the bank but now a new year has come and we are blessed once again. Thank You Lord Jesus for providing for my every needs. Praise your Holy Name.

My Love Story part 2

Since I've come back from Vietnam, I stayed at my brother's house for one week. During that week it was horrible because I didn't like that house that my brother lived it. It have some kind of weird spooky feeling to it. So one of those days I called Nguyen to come over and he literally had to find that place just by my voice on the phone direction but he made it. And he spend time with me and of course my brother knew about us so he didn't complain about it but rather support us. As he was leaving that night, I went outside to give him a good night kiss. And so our love continues and I visited him a lot while driving my dads car. My mom told me and said "If you have anyone you like and wish to be with, you have to tell us ok?" So I straight up told my mom "I wanna marry Nguyen. I love him." My mom was Okay about it at first but she didn't want to discuss it with my dad. So I took matters into my own hand and visited Nguyen more often. My parents became angry and my Dad was against it. He said "You're smart and you can go to college and do more. You can't get marry yet. When you go to college you will find someone better." I got really pissed off and went to Nguyen and we spend the night together and of course I told him everything." He got pissed off too. He said "Maybe we shouldn't see each other anymore." I was so mad at him that I threaten him "If you leave me, then I'll commit suicide. I was so mad and angry at the same time that I literally fainted like I use to when I was little. He got so scared and didn't know what to do, so he gave me CPR. And he continues to shake me until I finally woke up. Then he just hold me so tight and said "Please I won't say that again, please don't died." I fell in love with him even more but I know that something wasn't right. So after that day many things happen and Nguyen was trying to ignore me. One day I went to the park and waited for him cause I know he went and exercise there often. So when I confronted him about him avoiding me. He got mad and said "If you want me to love you, Be like other girls." Ouch!!! That was a sword piercing through my heart... The pain was so strong that I couldn't even talk to him for a couple of days. I knew that we were going for a bumpy ride in our relationship. That was the beginning of many more obstacles to come.... Well I'll write some more next time so keep on reading my blogs. Thank you have a blessed day.

MY LOVE STORY part 1

I have always been a tom girl. I usually hang out with boys more than girls. I love volleyball and hardcore one. I'm the kind of person who don't like to take it easy when playing sport, I would dive down to the ground just to get the spike ball and get myself all dirty and scratch up. But I love doing it. As my best Friend Joe would say "I see you coming to the volleyball court all dress nicely and clean but when you leave you're all dirty from head to toe." Well that was my life and I love fighting as well I beat up my older brother's friends and they got scared of me. They're 6-7 years older than me. LOL That was my life until I fell in love and it all changes. I fell in love with my brother's friend who is also like a brother to me. Every time he comes over whenever I cook I would let him taste it first. I even tried to hook him up with my friend who loves him. But it didn't work out between them. A couple of years later I see him, all I can do is smile and hug him several times. It's funny I acted like we were lovey couple for so long and didn't realize that I was in love with him. I even deny it when my brother asked me. On his 27th birthday I finally knew my feelings for him. That day we share a piece of the cake and he fed me. We went into his room and he gave me a message and we talked and laugh like always but this time I knew That I fell in love with him. As we left at his room door I gave him a long hug and reach up and kiss him. He was so surprised because we were so close and I left him in awweee.... So after that day he came to my house often and we started to go out. Our favorite place was Lake Norman parks. We would always go there and walk and talk and takes pictures and just have a wonderful time. We would do cook outs in that park. But our love didn't stay like that. After a couple months of dating, I have to leave for Vietnam for a month. Now, if you ever been in love you would know that a month is a long time to be away from the person you love so much. As we were leaving  for the airport to Vietnam he came along with his niece and their friends. You see his niece have taken a liking to me and would call me princess like in those Chinese movies. They were crying because I was going to leave for a while and can't play with them anymore for awhile. I left and said good bye but I didn't even go in the plane yet. Already I was missing him so I took my sister's phone and call him and told you "I love you and I miss you." I couldn't say that earlier because I was keeping our relationship from my parents. During my time in VIETNAM I call him twice because we didn't have phones in Vietnam so we have to use public one and it cost a lot of money. But he never picks up because of the time differences. It's 12 hours different so when it's morning there, it's night here. Every night before I go to sleep I would look at our picture and kiss him. My cousins who's around my age would already know about us and ask me a bunch of questions. It's funny because they were the ones who helped get in touch with him. While I was missing him, my dad's relatives try to hook me up with their sons. But I refuse to be with any of them. I love Nguyen and only him. I spent three days and night at my dad's relatives house and they tried to win me over but I just couldn't do it. They took me shopping and dinning out but all that don't matter to me as much as Nguyen did. So to kill time and not be too sad, I formed a Girl volleyball time in my village and played against the guys. We won of course. After we play everyone gathered at my friends house and eat and the guys were like "You serve really hard, my hand feels like it's about to break every time I get your serve." I just laughed. Another guy asked "Do all girls from America play hard like you?" I said "No. It's just me, I love volleyball and played with only guys." They were shock because girls in Vietnam are mostly girly and well mannered. But I was longing to go home and seek my man. So in the afternoon I would lay in a hammock and take a nap and dream of him. I did a lot of things while I was in VIETNAM like, shopping, going to play in the waterfalls and taking pictures, playing volleyball, singing in church choir, racing on my bike, and talk and walk as if everyone was equal. In Vietnam there is a social ladder where rich people can't talk to poor people or something like that. But I talk to everyone and my actions really surprised everyone in my village. My aunt always telling me to stay with the rich people, I told her that I didn't care about that stuff but I visited everyone from the poorest of poor to the average housing and always treated them the same. When I came back to America, all my cousins gave us parties after parties. In one day we had like four to five parties to go to. It's a whole two days of eating and eating and eating... I had to go home take a break and then continue to go to the parties. I swear that I've never eat that much in my whole life and It's a very memorable day because of it. When I finally came back to America, the first person I wanted to see was Nguyen... So I called him and he picked me up and of course I gave him gifts and hugs and kisses. To his nieces as well I gave a souvenir. I love him and we started spending more time with each other. But that was going to change for Our big problems were heading our way.... Well I hope you guys enjoyed my story so far, I hope you will come back and read part 2 of this story next time. God Bless you all and have a lovely Valentine's Day!!!! =)

What is TRUE LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP?

When we fall in love with someone, we expected it to be all lovey dovey,  easy, happily ever after.... But Truth is that all of that is wrong.... when you love someone there is always going to be problems and obstacle that is facing your relationship. But what you have to understand is that you both have to work at it. Sure love can sometime bring such joy in your life but it's not always going to be like that. There will come a time when you guys will fight over things. There's going to be many obstacles and arguments,  but True love is always being patient with your partner. Having Faith and trust in  them at all time. Keeping Hope at all times. It is persevering in all obstacles, it always protects those who are important to them. True love is never selfish, nor does it envy or boast. If you have true love you  are always willing to forgive and never keep grudges towards one another. When we think about love, we have to look at all these characteristic of Love and work at it with your partner so that your love can grow stronger and stronger every time you face obstacles and problems. That way your love for each other will have unbreakable bonds that will last forever..... I hope this helps you in your relationship with your special someone. May God Bless You and have a nice day. Thanks for reading. =)

Does Being a Christian means no problem in life?

Does being a Christian means that you won't have any problems in life? The answer to this is definitely NO. As a matter of facts many Christians faces even more problems and more prosecution in many minor countries. I come from Vietnam and I've been living in the USA for most of my life. My brothers and sisters in Vietnam are also Christian and they've were prosecuted for their faith. They got beaten up and hospitalize and their churches were being taken by the government. Now the government built a new church in the village but puts their people in charge of it who doesn't even believe in Christ. All the faithful pastors were not allowed to preach but only the person they put in charge of it. Because of my sister's faith they almost kicked her out of the church. But they refrained from it because they say that she gives the most offerings. LOL. I just can't wait to see how God will delivers them that chain that is binding them together under the government's control. We rejoice in the Lord always in all that we do and we love to help people in all that we do. Sharing the love of God is not easy but it's very rewarding.  Because of the trails that we face, the perseverance that we have built, has strengthened our Faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. He has made us glad and now we await until the day he comes back to get us soon. He is wonderful in all that he do. IF you ever seen a true believer, you can see a peace in them that you won't understand. Even if you know how hard their troubles are and yet you see them smiling and laughing as if all is well with their life. They don't chose to dwell in their troubles, problems, struggles, but they chose to give it all to Jesus and believe his word that he promise: "Behold I will never leave you nor forsake you..." That's why when you truly have Faith, all your worries are Gone!!!! Jesus is the very air that you breath and the very life line that you live by. Therefore there is not fear!!! Because the opposite of Faith is Fear. God is Faith, and Devil is Fear. That's what they use to get to us. By our Faith, miracles happens. By Fearing, the devil deceived us with his lies.

Valentine's Day Advises

Most of us couples are very excited for this Valentine's Day. Everyone is looking forward to spending their time with the one they love. Girls are getting ready for their dates, men are preparing that extra special date with gifts, flowers, and chocolates. All girls loves Flowers and Chocolates and that is usually the most common gifts to give this holiday. But a word of advise to the gentlemen out there: what really matters to girls is not the gifts you give her or the cost of it. What's really important is that you give your time and your thoughts into the things that your are going to do or give to her. So for this Special Holiday; think of something special about your partner, or lover. Something that is unique and not like other girls. Something that means most to them. Something that they hold dear to their hearts.

Remember that it's not the riches, money, or materials things that is important. But the LOVE that you have for each other. Because every time you see that person and see their smiles, it makes you happy. When you hear their voices, you get excited. When you feel their hugs, it dries your tears away. When you feel their kiss, it melt your heart away. When you hear their laughter, it warms you up. You pay special attention to their every movement. You think about them all the time. If something happens to them, you wouldn't hesitate to give them your life and Sacrifice yourself for their sake. The POWER of LOVE is the Strongest Forces in the whole World. So stay true to your partner and remember this Valentine's Day to spend sometime with your heavenly Father because he has shown you the greatest LOVE of ALL. =D Happy Valentine's Day EVERYONE!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!